The Top Ten Explanations for an Angry Woman
Yes, this. I might get more upset sometimes due to hormones, but what I’m upset about is always something I’m actually upset about, not something that’s all in my head.
The Top Ten Explanations for an Angry Woman
Yes, this. I might get more upset sometimes due to hormones, but what I’m upset about is always something I’m actually upset about, not something that’s all in my head.
this webpage is awesome.
via Reuters
Classy move, bank in Florida.
(via bmckinney)
This is ridiculous! It is obvious that cashing a check for this man would not have been a threat to bank security. Anyone could plainly see that this customer was completely ‘armless!
Thank you, thank you. I’m here all week! Don’t forget to tip your waitresses!
(via purpleprimate)
*snerk*
As a woman you can eschew or embrace femininity, but you will be rewarded and punished in equal amounts no matter which option you choose. You can never win.If you’re a woman who only drinks wine and who loves to talk about clothes and needlepoint, men will view you with contempt for being a wimpy wussy girly girl. If you’re a woman who drinks beer and loves talking about sports, then –Wow! My type o’ woman, hur hur. But then, you better counteract that with a fabulous dress and killer nails. Because take it too far, cast off too much of the feminine, and uh oh. We’re in freak country now: Yeaaah, I’m pretty sure she’s a man-hatin’ dyke. Snicker, snicker (Funny how unfeminine women are often assumed to be man-haters, instead of femininity or women-haters … As if not being feminine = not pleasing men = instant man-hater).
And so it ends up being an endless negotiation and compromise and balancing act. Go right ahead and admit that you have a soft spot for 90s rom coms, but then you’d better dismiss romance novels and their readers as tacky and pathetic. Sure, swear like a trooper, but make sure it’s offset by a charming giggle. By all means be a gearhead and spend all your disposable income on car related crap, but you’d better learn how to make a ripper curry and reattach a wayward button (I mean, jeeze, won’t somebody think of the husbands?!)
Of course the only answer is to decide that you don’t give a fuck about what men think. That you don’t care about male approval anyway (and most feminists are probably already doing this somewhat. Hell, even admitting that you’re a feminist means forfeiting a significant amount of male approval right off the bat (fortunately it is the type of male approval I do not want, anyway)).
(via the 5th Carnival of Feminists)
See, the woman who lives up to every requirement on the Patriarchal Beauty Standard Form 1A passes the femininity test. But pass that test too well and you’re “high maintenance”. The woman who lives up to other less physical requirements like being docile, polite, smiling (even when there’s nothing to smile about), not talking politics at housewarming parties (guilty as charged Your Honour), passes. The woman who is too docile, too fragile, too dependent emotionally: high maintenance. Either way, a woman is property. She requires work. She might, if you keep her maintained, pay dividends.
This is all basically a preamble to me telling you what annoys the absolute shit out of me about the whole thing. If you have the temerity to argue the charge of “high maintenance”, even if you argue that it is an invalid term, you’re guilty. Rational argument doesn’t work, any argument at all is enough to convict you. Which is like drowning a witch to prove her innocence. You can’t win against Kings of Dudeliness. They will do everything they can to silence you. The whole world will fall silent to give you a menacing look when you stand your ground.
puppy trying to go down stairs taller than he is break.
The larger public health implications of these kinds of disparities are obvious. The lack of access to a decent-sized supermarket is a growing problem here in the city, though it’s worse in other places: there are just four chain supermarkets in all of Newark, New Jersey’s largest city; Detroit, a city with a population of just under a million, doesn’t have any.
When we talk about obesity and the way it correlates is poverty, we spend most of our time talking about pushing low-income consumers into making healthier choices and probably not enough time discussing how we can get food retailers to sell healthy food them in the first place.
Laurence Berg, Canada Research Chair for Human Rights, Diversity and Identity, disagrees with the idea that PC language and policies are oppressive. Why? Because he doesn’t really believe that PC policies existed in the first place.
“What [they]’re calling the ‘PC movement’ I would call a social movement by marginalised people and the people who support them,” he said. “[A movement] to use language that’s more correct—not ‘politically correct’—that more accurately represents reality.”
CNN.com’s leads with a story about harmful the media scrutiny has been to Roman Polanski’s victim and how she would like the case to simply go away and stop interrupting her life. Hopefully the irony of plastering a rape victim’s picture all over their front page in conjunction with a story about how media attention causes that victim’s old wounds to reopen is not lost on CNN. The headline is “Victim: Courts did more harm than Polanski.” But rather than talking about the problems of leaving the implication that rape prosecution is a bigger problem than rape unchallenged, I want to talk about legal process.
A lot of people, mostly in the entertainment world, are claiming that Polanski’s case was barred by some sort of legal impropriety that somehow excuses his fleeing the country. Don’t be fooled. Here’s what happened, as best as I can piece together:
Rape cases with young victims are senstive. This one was particularly sensitive because Polanski was famous, and the predictable media circus formed. The victim was accused of “seducing” Polanski. And the longer the case drags on, the worse it will be for the victim. The prosecutor, perhaps for the sake of the victim, wanted a quick resolution to the case. So he offered Polanski a sweetheart deal. He would plead guilty to a single count of unlawful sex with a minor. The prosecutor would recommend he be given credit for time served, and be placed on probation.
The proseuctor’s recommendation is not binding on the judge. The judge perhaps looked at a man, due indirectly to his celebrity, was being slapped on the wrist for drugging, raping, and sodomizing a thirteen-year-old. It was a serious crime and perhaps the judge signalled an inclination to hand down a serious sentence. Rather than risking a sentence befitting his crime, Polanski fled.
Two more details. First, in criminal cases, the prosecutor is the state, not the victim. You don’t get to avoid prosecution for serious crimes if you have a particularly forgiving or reticent victim, although a prosecutor might consider that when deciding whether to pursue a case and a judge might consider it during sentencing. (Similarly, you can’t pay off your victim in a civil case to avoid a criminal case). Second, if you think there has been judicial or prosecutorial misconduct, you have a recourse. We have a lengthy appeals process. Polanski isn’t a victim of the court. He didn’t fight to clear his name. He just decided he shouldn’t be subject to the law.
Roman Polanski, 1979. Yeah, Chinatown is definitely in my top 10 favorite movies ever… but why are people defending this guy again? (via mykicks)
“I’m sorry that people are so jealous of me… but I can’t help it that I’m so popular.”
(via whereabout)
the fuck?