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Again, let me be clear: I am not dismissing the reality of hormonally-enhanced emotional expression. Just yesterday, I had two mini meltdowns of my own (tellingly, days before my period will start). But I’ve learned to pay attention to WHAT I am upset about, even if the HOW and WHEN of my expression can be tied to a particular phase in my menstrual cycle. My anger isn’t merely the consequence of my body’s mysterious workings. My anger, at times, is the product of a complex interplay between the biological and the emotional. But in any case, my anger is real and it shouldn’t be explained away.

The Top Ten Explanations for an Angry Woman

Yes, this. I might get more upset sometimes due to hormones, but what I’m upset about is always something I’m actually upset about, not something that’s all in my head.

The petition defending Polanski doesn’t even address his crime. Instead, it calls it a “case of morals.” That expression — a “case of morals” — takes the anti-violence movement back about a hundred years. Rape is not a question of morals. In fact it’s not even a question.
A bank in Florida refused to cash a check for an armless man because he could not provide a thumbprint.

via Reuters

Classy move, bank in Florida.

(via bmckinney)

This is ridiculous! It is obvious that cashing a check for this man would not have been a threat to bank security. Anyone could plainly see that this customer was completely ‘armless!

Thank you, thank you. I’m here all week! Don’t forget to tip your waitresses!

(via purpleprimate)

*snerk*

See, the woman who lives up to every requirement on the Patriarchal Beauty Standard Form 1A passes the femininity test. But pass that test too well and you’re “high maintenance”. The woman who lives up to other less physical requirements like being docile, polite, smiling (even when there’s nothing to smile about), not talking politics at housewarming parties (guilty as charged Your Honour), passes. The woman who is too docile, too fragile, too dependent emotionally: high maintenance. Either way, a woman is property. She requires work. She might, if you keep her maintained, pay dividends.

This is all basically a preamble to me telling you what annoys the absolute shit out of me about the whole thing. If you have the temerity to argue the charge of “high maintenance”, even if you argue that it is an invalid term, you’re guilty. Rational argument doesn’t work, any argument at all is enough to convict you. Which is like drowning a witch to prove her innocence. You can’t win against Kings of Dudeliness. They will do everything they can to silence you. The whole world will fall silent to give you a menacing look when you stand your ground.

Again, you can argue that Polanski is an example of how the American legal system unduly punishes its criminals, but until you’re willing to free all the nation’s sex offenders and make them promise to just keep their cool until their victims get around to forgiving them, it’s not a very solid argument.

Puppy Meets the Stairs

puppy trying to go down stairs taller than he is break.

Why is it that Christopher is the only smart alien in the whole film (at the first encounter, MNU needs to resort to verbal coercion because Christopher is “sharp” and understands the implication of eviction)? Why does Christopher alone have to be the one to rescue his alien counterparts? Why are all the other aliens, like the Nigerians in the film, portrayed as thieves or criminals? Because the theme of the movie is liberation from oppression, the elitism provides a false and ahistorical illusion by which liberation has been achieved: namely, it counteracts the fact that all historic liberations have been products of popular and democratic movements. Sure, there have been leaders like Malcolm and Gandhi, but that they have been leaders is a testament to which their ideas and messages were reflections of the movement (and the people) as a whole.

Some legal details of the Polanski case

squashed:

CNN.com’s leads with a story about harmful the media scrutiny has been to Roman Polanski’s victim and how she would like the case to simply go away and stop interrupting her life. Hopefully the irony of plastering a rape victim’s picture all over their front page in conjunction with a story about how media attention causes that victim’s old wounds to reopen is not lost on CNN. The headline is “Victim: Courts did more harm than Polanski.” But rather than talking about the problems of leaving the implication that rape prosecution is a bigger problem than rape unchallenged, I want to talk about legal process.

A lot of people, mostly in the entertainment world, are claiming that Polanski’s case was barred by some sort of legal impropriety that somehow excuses his fleeing the country. Don’t be fooled. Here’s what happened, as best as I can piece together:

Rape cases with young victims are senstive. This one was particularly sensitive because Polanski was famous, and the predictable media circus formed. The victim was accused of “seducing” Polanski. And the longer the case drags on, the worse it will be for the victim. The prosecutor, perhaps for the sake of the victim, wanted a quick resolution to the case. So he offered Polanski a sweetheart deal.  He would plead guilty to a single count of unlawful sex with a minor. The prosecutor would recommend he be given credit for time served, and be placed on probation.

The proseuctor’s recommendation is not binding on the judge. The judge perhaps looked at a man, due indirectly to his celebrity, was being slapped on the wrist for drugging, raping, and sodomizing a thirteen-year-old. It was a serious crime and perhaps the judge signalled an inclination to hand down a serious sentence. Rather than risking a sentence befitting his crime, Polanski fled.

Two more details. First, in criminal cases, the prosecutor is the state, not the victim. You don’t get to avoid prosecution for serious crimes if you have a particularly forgiving or reticent victim, although a prosecutor might consider that when deciding whether to pursue a case and a judge might consider it during sentencing. (Similarly, you can’t pay off your victim in a civil case to avoid a criminal case). Second, if you think there has been judicial or prosecutorial misconduct, you have a recourse. We have a lengthy appeals process. Polanski isn’t a victim of the court. He didn’t fight to clear his name. He just decided he shouldn’t be subject to the law.

If I had killed somebody, it wouldn’t have had so much appeal to the press, you see? But… fucking, you see, and the young girls. Judges want to fuck young girls. Juries want to fuck young girls. Everyone wants to fuck young girls!

Roman Polanski, 1979. Yeah, Chinatown is definitely in my top 10 favorite movies ever… but why are people defending this guy again? (via mykicks)

“I’m sorry that people are so jealous of me… but I can’t help it that I’m so popular.”

(via whereabout)

the fuck?